Are you on the brink of divorce?
Discernment Counselling may help!
Are you tired, lonely and scared when it comes to thinking of your marriage?

Are you sick and weary of worrying what your family's future holds? How about the children? Are they concerned about all the arguments between you and your husband that they witness or hear? Or perhaps you are adept at avoiding conflict in front of them, but you simply dislike being around your spouse, which makes it difficult to hide. It actually gets exhausting. You're ready to make a decision on the future of your marriage because you're sick of pretending. Who is leaning out of the marriage and who is actually in it? Perhaps you've attempted couples counselling, but it didn't truly provide you with the guidance you needed. But for everyone, divorce feels so definitive and important. If you truly anticipate a bright future, is there a middle ground where you and your spouse can be honest with one another?


We believe this is where Discernment counselling (DC) can support you better

DC is intended for divorcing couples who appear to be stuck in the same dialogue with no answers. It is intended for couples who are frustrated with their relationship and require outside assistance in order to discover some answers. Finding greater clarity and confidence in the couple's decision regarding the future of their marriage is the aim of DC. This results from jointly discovering the events that led to the relationship’s dissolution and each individual's role in it. Marriage therapy and discernment counselling are clearly different from one another. A couple may receive marriage counselling for an indefinite period of time till they feel comfortable



If you're feeling stuck in your marriage and want to gain clarity and confidence about its future, discernment counselling can help you stop the pain and heartache of indecision. Don't wait any longer—take action now to find the direction and peace you need for your relationship. To get started give us a call or write to us.


Gain clarity and confidence in your relationship with Discernment Counselling.







Effective divorce counselling

Divorce Therapy for Healing Emotional Wounds

Divorce therapy is relationship counselling which is focused specifically on navigating the challenges and decisions associated with divorce. It offers a supportive environment where individuals and couples can explore their feelings, concerns, and options related to divorce. You can attend divorce counselling alone or with someone else.



When Love Gets Broken


When Love Gets Broken


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    One or both partners realise they have changed as people and need something/someone different in life.

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    There as been too many traumas in the relationship and repair feels impossible.

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    One or both feel love is simply not there for them.

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    The couple realise that as painful as it is, separation will release them from a toxic environment.


Divorce Counselling (sometimes called divorce coaching) is a space for the couple, or an individual, to work through the aftermath of a separation to help them come to terms with;


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    The loss and grief of a relationship ending.

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    The fears of starting a new phase of life.

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    Helping work through the anger, bitterness, feelings of betrayal, self-criticism, anxiety, fear and other difficult emotions.

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    Build resilience for the future.

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    If children are part of the relationship, working at being good co-parents and not allow the past to impact on the children’s wellbeing.



Supporting you, wherever you're at

We can support you whatever stage of the divorce journey you're at:





Considering divorce


When the idea of divorce begins to surface, it can feel overwhelming and uncertain. Our counsellors provide a safe space to explore your feelings, concerns, and options. Together, we can assess your situation and help you make informed decisions about your future.


In the process of divorce


If you're already navigating the complexities of divorce proceedings, our counsellors can offer invaluable support. From managing emotions to navigating how to communicate about the situation to any children involved, we're here to help you cope with the challenges and uncertainties that arise during this time.


Aftermath of divorce


The aftermath of divorce can bring a whirlwind of emotions and adjustments. Whether you're struggling with grief, loneliness, co-parenting challenges, or rebuilding your life, our counsellors are here to provide compassionate guidance and practical strategies for moving forward.



As much as we want to work at helping a couple have a thriving relationship, we have also worked with many couples who do want to call it a day, and have helped them make the separation as painless and as positive as possible.

Divorce counselling is relationship counselling and you can attend alone or with your partner/ex.


Please contact us if you are unsure this is something that would help you, whether the relationship has just ended, or ended in the past, we can explain what we can offer you.

What can't divorce counselling help with?


Divorce Counselling is not about settling disputes about child custody and finances or dealing with the legal side of things. This is more about exploring whether you want to get divorced in the first place, helping you and your partner to work through the emotional side of things or to cope with the aftermath of divorce and to create a new life for yourself.





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